The Bachelor: The Final Four and Hometown Dates
Posted on February 21, 2012
Before even getting into last night’s Bachelor episode with the final four ladies and their hometown dates, I have to begin with the Courtney Spoof on YouTube…. This has brought me so many smiles and laughs out loud that it has actually made the pain of Courtney’s progression toward the Bachelor finale a bit easier. I’m curious to hear your thoughts on this as well. Does it make you LOL too?
And now back to last night’s less scintillating hometown dates (which I will keep short and sweet):
Visiting Lindzi in Ocala, FL
According to Lindzi, this is horse country. Ben meets Lindzi’s parents, who challenge the couple to a carriage race and end up winning. Lindzi confides that Ben is only the second man she has brought home to meet her parents, and the first one broke her heart. Lindzi hasn’t had a lot of dating experience; her parents kept her busy with horses. Ben thinks her parents are “salt of the earth.” He says he wouldn’t change anything about the day – it was wonderful.
Visiting Kacie B. in Clarksville, TN
Despite the fact that Kacie greets Ben with a marching band accompanied by some of her own baton-throwing as well as a leap-through-the-air hug, this is probably the least successful of the hometown dates. Her father is a Federal Probation Officer, who doesn’t drink. As Kacie says, “This is the bible belt, Ben.” And Ben’s comment is that he’s not sure they’ll have much in common. Kacie goes on to admit, “I’ll be upset if what they (her parents) say makes Ben question us.” A hint of foreshadowing as this is exactly what happens in my opinion. In fact, Kacie’s Dad says to her, “If he asked me (for his blessing), I would say ‘No.’” He doesn’t think they should rush things nor should they live together if
they aren’t married. And Kacie’s Mom concurs. This hometown date does not go well, to say the least.
Visiting Nicki in Fort Worth, TX
There’s not much to say about this hometown date…. The couple has fun shopping, drinking at a bar and then going on to meet Nicki’s parents. As you may recall, Nicki has been married before, and her Dad “doesn’t want to see her get hurt again.” But her family turns out to be quite supportive of Nicki and Ben. I am still not convinced of true connection between the two, but what do I know? The bottom line is that Nicki’s family liked Ben, and therefore the hometown date went well.
Visiting Courtney in Scottsdale, AZ
I can see where Courtney gets her looks, sing-songy voice and ditsy (at times) approach – her Mom. I wonder if she got her mean girl attitude from her Mom as well? Anyway, her parents seem to really like Ben, and their time together went well. After leaving Courtney’s home, she has decided to stage an impromptu fake wedding. They write and exchange their own vows, place rings on one another’s fingers and then Courtney tells Ben she loves him. I think that might be all he needs to hear, unfortunately. He totally digs her. Of all the women, he definitely seems to like her the most, but we all know the real truth about Courtney. I guess he’ll have to learn the hard way.
The Rose Ceremony – Ok, I’m just going to say it. I thought Nicki was going to go. I just didn’t see the connection there as I did with the other three. But alas, I was completely mistaken. Ben booted Kacie B. Not only that but he didn’t give any kind of reason for his decision. And so I had to come up with my own explanation, which is this…. Kacie’s family was the only family which didn’t fully embrace Ben. They were ultra-conservative and ultra-controlling. And in fact, her Dad said that if Kacie “is not the one, then tell her sooner than later.” I think this hometown date made it clear to Ben that they had come from very different backgrounds and maybe were therefore very different people. And this is precisely what Kacie feared…
All this aside, I have to say that I feel this Bachelor season is different from the others. I don’t see the excitement, passion, chemistry and connection between the characters/contestants that I have in the past. And I’m starting to see the writing on the wall – I’m thinking that Ben is going to end up choosing Courtney. Well, I’m not going there yet. But if he does, you know that famous expression, “You’ve made your bed, now lie in it?” I think that will be quite apropos….
So tune in with me next Monday on ABC to see the overnight dates with Lindzi, Nicki and Courtney in Switzerland as well as a surprise visit by what seems to be an eliminated Bachelorette?! In the meantime, who are you thinking will be the final two? I can’t wait to hear….








